Thursday, April 26, 2012

All the things I wish I knew about college shopping

So I will be graduating from high school pretty soon and then will be off to college. Now there are some keys things I wish I looked into and I’m here to share this info with you.

1.) Find out how much FAFSA will give you. Now, if you’re like me, you’re parents seem to make a lot of money but you are paying for college yourself. So at first, you think oh shit I’m screwed but not necessarily. My expected family contribution (EFC) was way less than what I expected. Now there are websites out there and they can help you estimate your EFC. This is important to do because when you have a better idea of how much financial aid you can get, it opens up a lot of doors to different colleges you never thought you could afford. On the flip side, if you think your EFC will be low and  you get your hopes up and get set on a school then you realize you can’t afford it you get your heart broken. If I were doing this process again I would do it either sophomore or junior year. I say this because its not a good idea to start thinking where you want to go fall of senior year. Trust me.

2.) Take the SAT as many times as you want! One of my biggest regrets is not taking it one more time to see if I could get  a higher score to get in the Honors Program at the school I’m looking at. If you feel like you won’t improve, then I would say don’t take it but if you genuinely think you can do better, take it again. Don’t be afraid that you’ll look silly to the colleges if you take it more than 2 times, what seems to be average. Also, answer those silly questions they send you everyday on your email. I think answering those questions so diligently is what made my score jump from the first of 1580 to 1780. Also, another sign for you to take the SAT again is when there is such a huge jump in the scores between the first time and the second time. It’s not always a clear indicator you can get a better score but when it kind of us hanging around the same the general area of score, that means that you probably got as high as you could. Unless, you think you can do better which we already went over.

3.) Keep a calendar of everything you’ll need to know. You have to stay on top of a lot of things. And when you miss out on that scholarship or anything of the sort you’ll be kicking yourself. I just got Google Calendar. Its really easy. And start this beginning of junior year I would say since there are quite a bit of scholarships out there for juniors. Hint: every where Nordstrom has a scholarship for $10,000 for junior. Look it up.

4.) This goes out to all my music majors, if are not taking private lessons, particularly singing start now! The best results come from people who have been preparing for college about the beginning of their junior year in high school.

5.) Push your self in school! My parents where extremely afraid of me failing classes so I never too AP classes or honor classes till my senior year. Don’t do this. Not because it will make a difference in scholarships and where you get excepted, but because you will always wonder if you could have gotten more and that wondering is the worst, especially when it comes to scholarships and money is involved.

 

Here are some good websites  by the way :

www.fastweb.com- great site for scholarships and it has a lot of things involved with the DoSomething organization which encourages teens to participate in community service which helps other people too!

www.cappex.com- this site is great for a lot of things. Not only does it give you scholarships, but it gives you the chances of getting into a school based on grades, SAT/ACT, and community service.

www.youniversitytv.com- haha get it!!! well anyways, this site is really fun because you can tour colleges by watching countless videos from across the US and they have at least one school from each state. And besides just watching it is fun!

 

So I’ll add another post like this sometime to help out people with the whole college thing! And if you have any question ask and I could give you some advice and info. FAFSA in particular, I know very well.

Peace out!

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Some things you can’t doubt….

  This is a conversation I had with one of my best friends when discussing college and the recent disappointment of not getting into the music program there. If you are a music lover and this is what you want to do for your life, I suggest you read it. Winking smile

 

Today

Did I tell you i didn't get into to Western's music program?

Report · 19:56

What?!

When did you find out?

I’m so sorry Bre

  (this is me! haha in new york actually, see earlier blog on NYC if confused Winking smile )

Report · 19:57

I think Friday.

so I didn't get into Fullerton or Western.

Report · 19:57

But everything happens for a reason. Whatever college you end up going to, there is a purpose. Your prince charming will be at the college that you choose :)

Report · 19:58

I love you! Thank you for saying that!

I was thinking that myself. Now like I have said I have been becoming more religious and I was thinking about how God has a plan for me.

but I think I’m going to go to western

I’m think I’m going to work summer on auditions and then go back and audition again.

Report · 19:59

Don't worry Bre. my friend who wished he got into Berkeley came to Davis and then found his girlfriend and his passion for agriculture that he definitely could not have discovered in Berkeley because Berkeley doesn't have an agriculture program!

nice! :) everything happens for a reason :) what other colleges are you thinking of?

Report · 20:02

I think I will just go to western. It was weird when i realized that maybe I wasn't ready for western the minute i wanted to go there.

Wait so you got into western but not the music program?

Report · 20:04

Yes, I got into to western with a 4,000 dollar scholarship a year

Just not the music school .

Report · 20:13

well Bre its amazing! Son't limit yourself to music! college is the time to take classes you want to take and see if its interesting! I just found out o like chemistry hahaha :) might major in Chem! and I might double major with drama because I love my drama class!

you can audition but keep your options open!

you're going to love college

a new start

new everything

no one to limit you

you can do what you want to do

because you feel its best

and not because someone else says you should

everything is in your power

:)

Report · 20:14

If I want to go with the idea that maybe God has a plan for me then maybe he wants me to look at other subjects. But honestly I don't see that happening.

see and this is why. first of all, I have loved music all my life and I always said i wanted to be a singer. all the time. Every time I didn't get a solo in my elementary school choir, I cried.

Which was quiet often. Second of all, music has helped me through so much.I connect with it and like it was said in August Rush ( i don't know if you saw that movie) 'I believe in music the way some people in magic.’

Music has kept me sane.

thirdly, it has always gave me self confidence. I know I’m good. I’m not great but that's okay but i can't work at it. at the end of the day though it had always gave me self esteem

lastly, its who i am. L never feel more like myself then when I am on stage singing and performing. I feel like me. I feel like every time I sing, its the real me screaming out, "here I am"

the real me no one knows.

Report · 20:23

well maybe when you work in the summer for your audition, you will realize how much you love music! it does seem like you love music and that its your passion! imagine how much more you'll appreciate getting into the program the second time around! maybe you’re meant to learn how much you truly love music this summer! everything happens for a reason! i believe in you bre. a lot of people do :)

Report · 20:23

thank you :)

i think that might be so. that this is testing me to see how much i really want it.

its interesting because with in the first few seconds of getting the letter saying no to accepting me in the program I never once thought I wasn't capable.

I knew maybe I wasn't ready for the program but I never thought I couldn't do it.

and also I immediately go on the computer and emailed the school and asked how can I get in later on. what can I do.

I immediately looked up a new voice teacher. Trying to find a way to get better. It set a fire under my butt unlike anything else.

Report · 20:27

:) bre that is amazing. Its amazing that you know what you want to accomplish this summer. that you know how much you love music and want to pursue it :) maybe you wouldn't have come to these realizations if this hadn't happened! you know what you want :)

Report · 20:29

I want it more anything. Asking me to not sing is like asking me to not breath. insane and will only lead me to my death. melodramatic but its kinda the truth. not the part that it would lead me to my death.

but you don't have to think about breathing you just do that is what singing is to me.

Report · 20:30

:) that's so meaningful! you should re read that if you ever feel unmotivated :)

Report · 20:31

i think i might. :)

i know this sounds really corny but who cares.

Report · 20:31

no its amazing!

Saturday, April 14, 2012

The Next Minute

In the following minutes after the tears

I almost believe you

I almost understand

Why you treat me the way you do

I can see

how you think so little of me

It’s as clear as glass

Then shattered on the floor

Once worth so much

Now nothing more

But it floats away like a dream

To ruin your almost perfect scheme

Do you want me gone?

Cause the next minute

 You’ll know you did me wrong

The next minute I leave

You’ll be missing me

But I’ll be doing fine

My heart will be mine

You can’t make me believe

In your little crazy scheme

Please help me understand

Why you think I can’t stand

On my own two feet

When you set me in the backseat

I will show you

I’m worth so much more

Then your dream of a perfect daughter smashed on the floor

This will settle the score

You wanted me gone

Now the next minute

 You’ll know you did me wrong

The next minute I leave

You’ll be missing me

But I’ll be doing fine

My heart will be mine

You can’t make me believe

In your little crazy scheme

It’s so crazy

How I was your little baby

Baby to the burden

I couldn’t take the hurtin’

So I stopped listenin’

To the nasty things you say

I am beautiful,

I am passionate

I have so much worth giving

But you don’t even know me

How could you see

You wanted me gone

Now the next minute

 You’ll know you did me wrong

The next minute I leave

You’ll be missing me

But I’ll be doing fine

My heart will be mine

You can’t make me believe

In your little crazy scheme

 

How you handle it when people put you down?

Leave a comment!

Friday, April 13, 2012

If I was arrested….

Obsessed with this! One day when I get arrested I will sing a song and it might be this song right here!

If you were arrested, what song would you sing?

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

My Hope

So recently I watched the very sad movie about a true story called  “The Laramie Project.” Ever since then, this has been on my mind and I feel the need to say it somewhere. Here it is: I love gay people. I think they are amazing people who have been through so much. So much hatred has been thrown at them and it seems they stay so positive. I wish people could realize that gay people are no different than any one else except the people the love. If you’re gay and you have happen to run past this, I just want you to know that I love you. And fuck it if someone doesn’t like you because of you love. I think that says something about them as people, not you. I just hope someone finds this and they feel better.

P.S. If you don’t like what I have to say, don’t waste your time trying to convince me otherwise. It won’t happen.

P.S.S. I hate the word faggot. Hate it.

I love NYC!!!!!

I went to the Big Apple, Gotham, the City That Never Sleeps, etc. etc.( you get the idea) in spring of last year but I just haven’t gotten to loading up the pictures so here they are Smile

 040(Charlie Sheen was there!!)

123(I will acknowledge it as a tourist trap but… it’s the best tourist trap)

150(expecting it to bigger, not going to lie)

178(Expecting to be proposed to there in about 10 years… )

195

(John Lennon’s apartment)

211

(Juilliard…’nough said)

245

( the famous piano!!! FAO Swartz)

043The one and only PLAZA! Eloise lives there!

109

At the met museum, made me smile

 

266

Tiffanys… spoiled girl in a candy store

 

208future workplace! that is the Met Opera, if you didn’t know.